I Took A Hand In Mine Today!

I took a hand in mine today…

But holding tight I found that hand grown cold…

For it was of an old friend now passed away…

And holding tight my tears did flow…

As I felt and saw from memories trove…

The many days we’d shared and cared…

And known each other’s joys…

But I was here to say goodbye…

Knowing those times were not enough…

But of late we’d let world and duty fill our lives…

And stayed away with hardened heart…

When but with a moment’s thought…

We could have seen the folly of all we’d lost…

And found the time before all was gone…

For holding hands still warm with life and love…

And with laughter bright and hugs of joy…

We could have shared so much…

But the truth was there in hands grown cold…

We’d lost our way and went astray…

From all that could have been…

So terry not to see those who mean so much…

And hold them close and hug them long…

For time does take its toll…

And hands too soon grow cold!

                                   By Frank Woodman 2014-

In Memory of Robin Williams …

And sadness falls for all who say.. There is no reason for another day.. And even love can fail to make some see the need to live and breathe.. But those who care will never stop and with words and deeds they save a few.. And morn the failures and those they lost to shadows dark that blind all hope.. So pray for those lost and desperate ones that need our hope to last the day.. And never turn or keep from anyone a chance to live another day.~ Frank Woodman 2014

The Bell Tolls for Us All..

Only two common events are absolutely shared by all… one is death the other is personal suffering… for all of us will die and all of us will suffer personally. Some more than others but all suffer… and it’s sad to see that often there is little to be done beyond holding out a hand to help someone up… but it’s in the commonness of facing death and the commonness of our suffering that we see how little we are really different… Whether poor or rich… young or old… life takes its toll on us… and we all need both help and love to make it through with any chance of happiness… We see this most when death and suffering come together publically… from a death like Robin Williams to something more sinister like a school shooting or a child abduction we suddenly come face to face with the fact we are all only players on a stage saying the same lines and trying to make them different… So how do we survive and make sense of these things… simple … love and care for each other… hold out a hand to those in need… never judge or hurt those already hurting… and most of all be thankful for what we have and share what we can.

THE WISE WOMAN’S STONE

A wise woman, who was traveling in the mountains, found a precious stone in a stream. The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation. The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But, a few days later, he came back to return the stone to the wise woman. “I’ve been thinking,” he said. “I know how valuable this stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me this stone.

 
Author Unknown

Words, Words, Said Today… Never Will They Go Away!

Well anyone who says something should consider that they have no right to expect their words to ever go away.. Words are real.. They carry weight.. They hurt.. Or they heal.. They build.. Or they destroy.. Use them wisely and remember they last a life time.. For as has been said before.. People may not remember what you’ve done.. But they will certainly remember how you made them feel.

Where Do We Fit in the Universe?

Ever stop to think just how relative things are when we consider the immense universe and our place in it .. To the universe we seemingly mean little.. But we all have meaning to the world around us and a place in the grand scheme of things and yet seemingly have little meaning when we back up and look at the total picture.. However just as even a very big jigsaw puzzle seemingly needs each small piece very little if you leave it out it’s the first thing we notice.. So, see it or not, we are important and without us and the small place we fill the picture even though large would be incomplete.. And it would be that one small spot we fill that would stand out even against the vastness of the universe.

The End of an Era.. But Not the End of WinPatrol

Since I became involved with IT back in 1994 I’ve came to love WinPatrol.. one handy little security tool that I simply have came to depend on.. Does it’s job and does it very well with little load on a system it can show you and help you fix or resolve so many problems it’s amazing.

And for all that time it’s been developed and managed by one man Bill Pytlovany.. And he’s simply one of tecks great guys. Never has he let his program become the avenue for serving up tool bars and adware/malware as so many small independent developers. And I can assure you he could have made a small fortune putting things like the ‘ask toolbar’ as an add in.. but he’s never done it and swore he never would.

But sadly all things come to an end even a labor of love like Bill had with WinPatrol. And he’s sold is baby… but luckily for us who love and understand just how rare WinPatrol has been in the IT world for staying true to it’s mission Bill found someone else who seems to share his vision….  Bret Lowry… 

In his statement published with the announcement his words reassured me that Bill picked the right guy…

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My commitment to WinPatrol customers is as follows:

One, your lifetime PLUS licenses are just that, lifetime licenses. That was the easiest topic in our negotiation and is written into the contract.

Two, WinPatrol will not have toolbars or other “add-ins” added to it or its installer. Installers that do that drive me crazy because I’m the guy people call to “fix” their computer after the installer completes its hijacking. I am not going to do that to my customers.

Three, I will be responsible for answering support questions, even more incentive to play nicely and stand-by item two above. And

Four, I use WinPatrol myself and therefore am committed to the continued improvement of WinPatrol. I am honored to have earned Bill’s trust and confidence in his allowing me to purchase WinPatrol. Bill has run WinPatrol with integrity since its inception, as a founder of Ruiware (along with my wife), I promise we will carry on that tradition.” ~ Bret Lowry.

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So with those words those of us who love WinPatrol have hope for the future that the passing of the guard will leave in place all we’ve came to love about this program. 

With that in mind I would suggest you check out WinPatrol if you haven’t already. You won’t be disappointed in what does as a program and supporting it will continue to keep at least one program free from the leaches that attach themselves to far to much software today. 

PS.. I”m not alone in my assessment of this transition as Fran Parker’s (Fran’s Computer Service) shows in her great post… http://franscomputerservices.wordpress.com/tag/bill-pytlovany/